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Tuesday, April 07, 2009

my last words.. .. b4 i enlist

脑筋急转弯

Q:遇到台风天,要至少带多少钱才能出门??
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A:4千万。
(台风天没事千万不要出门。)

HAHA

going NS(aka botak) in 4 day's time..

There are multiple solutions to a problem. when u encounter a problem, being sad is fine but pick urself up fast cos everyone encounters loads of problems in their life. Sadness is contagious. So is Happiness. Ur sadness will spread. but will be curbed if dealt with fast enough. For your loved ones, stay strong. If one solution to a problem is unapplicable, u have to use another solution or alter ur solution a bit. Be Creative. Be a Ns man now! WOOTS.

Be optimistic. Be a NS man now! ok la.. very lame. Always look on the bright side of life! lala, lala lala lala! but not too optimistic.. u know la huh.

finally, i'm going to become a real man!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Dear ???

Dear _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _,

altho the time i spent with u is not tt long, it isnt tt short either. my feelings for you had grown. nv did i expect that today will be the day where u and i part ways... i had an enjoyable time with u yesterday.. you accompanied me to boon lay, Bugis , Vivocity, and watched coming soon with me.
you always shoulder the burden of me on you. you are truly a great friend. yet i didnt take good care of you. I hope you can at least enjoy the companionship of your new "Friend". Good luck to you. Goodbye.

Yours sincerely,
Ahnia

Saturday, March 07, 2009

jap jap

jap word of the day: omoshiroi (interesting/amusing)

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

how's life?

how's life u ask? oh no u didnt ask?
i shall reveal it to u anyways. u faithful readers of my rally updated blog.

while some are diligently(<---dunno if this applies to u all) at work, and some at tekong kena tekong,
i am everyday sitting in front of a screen that connects me to the entire world.

or perhaps say a few jap words like arigatou.. konnichi wa... hondou ne! da hong dou! yu tou! zhua zhua zhua ! zhua zhua zhua! ... kk enuff

well's tt's Living
In
Full
Emptiness for me.

see you in just 2 yrs..

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

embarrassment triggered aggression

When u're in a embarrassing situation, u tend to snap more easily. For eg, my nephew(5-6yrs old?) trips on his own in front of us, and he scolded his younger brother( 2-4 yrs old?) for tripping him.

well in this situation, the nephew is trying to "save his face" by pushing the blame to his bro. it could have worked, just like in any embarrassing situations, but not when he did it in front of us. We saw the incident clearly. Yet, in an desperate attempt to recover from the embarrassment, he made a hasty and unwise move, which is to scold and push the blame to his bro, thinking it might worked. However, it did not.

Worst still, he embarrassed himself even more in front of the crowd and even lost the trust of his bro(altho i think he's too young to figure anything out). He could have just laughed it off.

This story is a case of embarrassment-triggered aggression. One feels guilty/embarrassed about something and gets snappish to conceal the guilt/embarrassment. Whoever u lashed out at will either be sad/angry at u, relationships soured (ask yourself. do you really want that? Is there no other options?) you are ashamed of yourself for doing this after you calmed down. The cycle continues.. This APPLIES to everyone of us.

everyone should learn to control their emotions, and not let emotions overtake you too easily or it might get out of hand. Even if you want to lash out, do it tactfully and properly.

:):):)

last of all HAPPY NEW YEARzxzxzxzxz !! WOOTS!!

i bet no one comes to my blog anymore lol.. except maybe tt lady in tt polka dot uniform.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

20th century boys

kenji kun~ let's play!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

untitled

To u who is reading this post!
u should be mugging !!!!!
For Prelims!
i know u really like to read my posts and its been long awaited?!? (is it?)
but dun waste time reading my random and stupid post....
*blows the dust*